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Wanting to Awaken

When it's time to awaken, a longing for awakening arises from deep within us. This longing comes from Essence and spurs on our spiritual growth. However, the desire to awaken is often co-opted by the ego, which sees awakening as an opportunity to be special, feel good, get what it wants, or escape life. When the desire to awaken is co-opted by the ego, the result is suffering, as with every other desire tthehe ego has. To the ego, how we are and how life is right now never seems good enough but flawed and lacking the ingredients for happiness. This is the ego's constant state, a state of discontentment.

Many suffer greatly over wanting to awaken, as over every other desire. That's because desire by its nature takes us out of the moment, where contentment is possible, and into a dream of something better in the future, which creates an experience in this moment of lack and, therefore, dissatisfaction.

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What Story Are You Relating To?

We bring a story into nearly every moment, and doing that affects how we experience that moment and how we respond to life. If the story is “I hate washing the dishes” and we are washing the dishes, our experience of washing the dishes is affected by that story. We also might say or do something in response to hating to wash the dishes, such as get mad at someone who isn't helping us with the dishes. We might even throw a dish if the feeling is strong enough.

We also tell stories about our loved ones, such as: “You don't care about me.” “You're not attractive enough for me.” “I can't live without you.” “I need someone more exciting.” “I'm not rich enough for you.” “I can't see myself with you.” We all know what these stories are because they are the kind of “insights” we might share with a friend or someone else we are close to. These stories, the more they are repeated and reinforced, interfere with being present to the people we love, and they are never the complete truth. Rather than responding to our loved ones purely, we let our view of them or our view of the relationship, our story, affect how we react to them. Telling stories and reacting to our stories is going on most of the time unconsciously. We aren't naturally aware of our stories or examine them until perhaps they cause so much trouble that we are forced to.

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One Thought at a Time

There's only room for one thought to arise at a time. People often feel overwhelmed by their negative thoughts and feel victimized and controlled by them. They have difficulty detaching from them. They feel that their thoughts, at least some of them, are too compelling to ignore, and some are very compelling.

Nevertheless, many of our thoughts are quite easy to ignore, and ignoring the easier ones strengthens our ability to ignore the harder ones. Learning to detach from the mind is a skill. Like every skill, starting with something easier and moving to something harder is the way to build confidence and competence. The most important thing is to not get discouraged and give up trying to detach from the egoic mind, because the ego will try to discourage you when you attempt to become free from it.

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The Simplest Meditation

Here's the simplest meditation, which you can do anywhere and anytime. It's meant to become a way of life, not just a meditation: Notice, without getting involved in any thoughts about what you are noticing. Ignore all of the mind's commentary. Notice not only what's obvious, such as what you are seeing, but also what's more subtle, such as your inner experience and state, your energy and sense of yourself (is it expanded or contracted?), any knowing or intuitions, any drives or motivations, and any thoughts or feelings. Notice not only what's coming in through your senses, but also the impact that has on you subtly and not so subtly. Notice everything that's arising in the moment and being experienced. And if you are involved in doing something, really notice that. There's a lot to notice in any moment!

The reason for meditating is to develop your ability to stay present to thoughts and feelings, which are products of the ego, instead of identify with them. We habitually identify with the egoic mind—we believe our thoughts and feelings—and this causes a lot of suffering. The ego isn't wise, and it keeps us from accessing true guidance and from recognizing what is really living our life. Through noticing, awareness of the Noticer is strengthened. Another name for the Noticer is Essence. The Noticer is who we really are. We are what is noticing, or aware of, life.

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The Present Heals

What heals the past? The old adage claims that time heals. If that's so, why does it heal, and is it really time that heals? Over time, our memories weaken and our ability and desire to bring the past into the present through thought weaken. Life starts getting in the way, as whatever was lost gets replaced by new life. That new life begins to get our attention more than what happened in the past. Time heals because life moves on to something new. Life brings us new experiences, opportunities, challenges, and relationships. Since we can only give our attention to one thought at a time, after some time has passed, our memories are naturally given less attention, they fade, and other thoughts take their place.

If that's how time heals, then that's very good news, because it means we can speed the process of healing our sorrows over the past just by moving our attention away from thoughts about the past onto the present moment. Being in the Now is actually what heals old emotional wounds, not time. Shifting our attention to the present moment is not denying or repressing the past, but simply not creating unnecessary pain for ourselves. It's a wise choice. We can continue to recreate, or reanimate, the pain of the past, or we can choose to leave the past in the past once we see that bringing memories into the present moment doesn't serve us, but only extends the pain and distances us from life.

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